MY MOTHER AND MY AUNTS are the people who've had the biggest impact on me as a child. These sisters help bring meaning to the statement: “THE WHOLE IS GREATER THAN THE SUM OF ITS PARTS”.
From Right to Left:
My Aunt: Lisa
She's the fun aunt who keeps you laughing. The one who could pull smiles out of thin air by the "wacky" things she did. I remember once, my mom spanked my bottom and I was so hurt behind that. And my aunt, said "it's OK nae nae, look at this", and she ran past my mom and pulled her pants down to her ankles and her behind was just out in the wind. I laughed so hard I stopped crying. My mother wasn't too happy and they argued about it later. But my aunt knew how to make me happy. The playful aunt.
My Aunt: Sharnae
The strict aunt. The one "who didn't play that". She was no nonsense, and gave the appearance of being very strict. She was the aunt that kept everyone in line, the praying aunt, the aunt who reminded us about God, and made sure we walked the straight and narrow. The aunt who made us well aware of the consequence of our actions. The stern aunt.
My Aunt: Donna
This woman was more "my friend" growing up. Anything I was afraid or ashamed to tell anyone else, I was able to tell her. Because of her I wasn't a child who harbored secrets that could later do harm to me or others. She may not always have kept my secrets, but she always did things in such a way that I always trusted her. The friendly aunt.
My Aunt: Renee
Always had a kind word. Even if I was dead wrong. Never yelled or screamed, but was always able to get me to see things from a different perspective by using "reverse psychology". Because of her I'm able to put myself "in the other person's shoes", and am now slower to anger. She was the understanding aunt.
And Last but not Least.... My Mother: Myra
Strong Woman. Woman of Faith. Taught me "whatever doesn't kill me, makes me stronger" I didn't like her methods of teaching as a child. To me they were harsh. But as I grew up, I understood. She was able to "show me better than she could tell me". Because of her I was able and am able to face people and their rudeness and meanness and not let it get to me. Because of her I'm able to deal with society's negativity's and still come out victorious! My mother was the balance keeper. She's the balance keeper to this day, the glue that holds it all together.
Banae,
ReplyDeleteEveryone has that strict aunt in their family. I also have one whose name Julia. She is always serious and never wants to have fun.
Banae,
ReplyDeleteWow, your aunts sound just like my aunts; playful, strict, friend, and understanding. Most importantly they all love you; they just have their own unique way of showing it. In doing so they have all had a lasting impact on your life.
What a nice connection to "the whole is greater than the sum of its parts." Sounds like you were surrounded by a wonderful group of strong women!
ReplyDeleteBanae,
ReplyDeleteYour family sounds a lot like mine. You were raised by a group of strong, supportive, and loving siblings. My maternal grandmother bore nine children and my paternal grandmother bore eight children. Based on the sheer numbers, I was also surrounded by a loving group of individuals. I believe that your exposure to diverse points of view have defiantly prepared you for the diverse student population you'll mentor. Students will continually challenge you but because of your foundation, you will be prepared to challenge them even further.
Thanks for sharing part of your childhood with us, as well as those important people that made a difference in your life.
ReplyDeleteIt must have be wonderful to have so many types of personalities sharing the work of caring and supporting you during your childhood. You had the opportunity to learn from each other and with it create your own believes and values based on their examples.
Thank you once again for sharing your wonderful memories and family with us.
I enjoy reading your post. It is great to have people around us to lead us in the right directions. I know if it were not for my parents and siblings to push me, show me, and talk to me about life and the things that you want out of it, I do not think I would be where I am today. We must remember "Life Is What You Make Of IT".
ReplyDeleteThank all of you for your kind comments!
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